Do you remember when you got pregnant for first time, all the sudden everyone had “the best advice” to share with future mommy? And how you were sick of hearing all those unsolicited advices as time passed? Surely every women who got pregnant heard them!
Well, as much as we don’t like hearing this: Among those were some valuable advices! On this page several parents (like you and me!) have shared their experiences with those advices they didn’t ask for but at this point, after some time has passed, wished they listened!
I was told: Sleep when baby sleeps! And it helped me tremendously to keep my sanity. Only I would add: Keep going with sleeping when your child sleeps even when you have a toddler! Work will be there when you wake up, only at that point, you will be more likely to get everything done without stressing out!
Shared by Mihaela, mother to 2 girls (7 and 2,5 years old), author on Best Toys for Toddlers.
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Lower your standards. I hated them for saying this. i felt insulted and I thought I was capable of doing it all. Now, I know better. The dishes can wait. I don’t have to vacuum and mop everyday and no I don’t have to be a supermom. My kids will only be this age once. I now spend more time taking pictures, making videos and playing on the floor. I still get time to cook.. yes there are smudges on the furniture and the curtains have finger paint sometime… but nobody cares… not even my guests. They are more interested in my little entertainers.
Shared by Ayesha, mother to 3 (7 and 3 years, 8 months), author at Words’n’Needles.
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Ask for help. It’s tempting to try and do everything yourself, but there are many hands willing to pitch in and help you…. or to play with your kid so you can get a few minutes rest (or do some work). No man is an island, nor is any mom. Take advantage of your support network so that you don’t get burned out or sick.
Shared by Betsy, mother to 2 boys (3 years and 3 months), author at Betsy’s Photography.
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Enjoy it! I know it can be so difficult when baby or toddler is screaming every 5 minutes. But the time goes so quickly and suddenly your baby is 6! You know what they say about having kids.. The days are long but the years are short!
Shared by Dr.Orlena Kerek, mother to 3 boys (6, 4 and 2 year olds) and girl (2 year old), author at Snotty Noses.
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Don’t forget to spend time with your partner! Although having a baby is incredibly awesome, amazing, and life-changing in every way, it can also be a strain on your relationship. My husband and I kept thinking we didn’t need to have “dates” or time away from our little man, but it started taking a toll on how connected we were. We finally realized this about 6 months ago (my son is now 3!) and have started having date-nights. It’s made all the difference in how we feel about ourselves as a couple again and that translates to a happier home and happier child!
Shared by Sue, mother to 3 year old boy, author at One Time Though.
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Every child is unique. Each has special qualities, strengths, and weaknesses. Not all children develop in the same way. Comparing them to each other only sets up disappointment. Each child needs to be celebrated and loved unconditionally – no matter where they are in their developmental progress. There really is no room forcomparison when raising children.
Shared by Deborah, mother to 2 boys (7 and 5 year old) and 3 girls (9, 3 and 1 year old),
author at Mommy Crusader and her Knights and Ladies.
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To begin with, I hated breastfeeding with my eldest daughter, the agony and mastritis did not help for a smooth start. The parenting class we attended before put me off completely but not my husband, he was just amazed by it all. I remember the teacher saying more women are successful with breastfeeding due to the help and support of their partner to which I quietly thought “Really?”. It is true I would of never stuck at it without his help and support.
Shared by Gemma, Early Years Teacher and mother to 2 (3 years and 9 months),
author at The Adventures of Meemoo and Pook. Follow Gemma on Facebook and Pinterest.
Put the baby down! I was afraid to let my baby go even for a few minutes. I wasn’t even babywearing, so it was difficult for me to do the most basic tasks. I would really advise new mothers to put their baby down now and then so they learn to be by themselves too.
Shared by Tarana, mother to 3 year old boy, author at Sand In My Toes.
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Which one of the advices you were told during your pregnancy bugged you the most?
Was it proved to be truthful advice?
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Good collection – every one of those is valuable and worth repeating over and over. some bear repeating even when we’re not “new moms” anymore. #laughlearnlinkup
Thank you so much for linking this post up to The Sunday Showcase! I had trouble putting my son down too.
Some great advice here! Thanks for linking up with the #parentingpinitparty
These are good tips for new parents!
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These are all so very true! I wish I would have listened to more of them! Great advice! Thanks for linking up to mommy needs a time out!